Here is what I love about Woe the Bills Wednesday is that it’s a huge reminder to the ego that it’s not a month full of shopping for things like my new Apple TV (which I do love.) Woe the Bills Wednesday is a reminder that it’s not about how much you spend on anyone, but it’s about enjoying the season and being with people that you care about. So yeah… no more major shop till you drop commercialized days that try to steal the true spirit of the season. It’s about finding those we care about and telling them. It’s about finding ways to help people. It’s about love. Plain and simple. The Catholic school girl in me saw the picture above and had a visual reminder of both childhood and being peaceful in thoughts and spirit. I don’t know what it is about a candle that helps me connect to things that are beyond me, but I love it. My Charlie Brown Christmas tree is in my living room. No one wants to see that or you might feel sorry for me when you shouldn’t. 2015 was a blessing for me. 2016 is going to be even better. I’m starting to clean up what I want to accomplish for my yearly goals and challenge myself to grow. But before we get to the new year, it’s about love, family, friends, and joy to the world. So as I started today is all about getting in touch with the part of the soul that want’s to give and to love. I hope you join me!
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I shift my focus away from holiday shopping and commercialism during the Christmas season?
To shift focus away from holiday commercialism, prioritize connecting with people you care about over spending money on gifts. Simple acts like telling loved ones how you feel, finding ways to help others, and embracing peaceful traditions — such as lighting candles or decorating a modest tree — help reconnect you with the true spirit of the season, which centers on love, family, and joy.
What is Woe the Bills Wednesday?
Woe the Bills Wednesday is a personal reminder that the holiday season is not defined by how much money you spend. It serves as a check on the ego and consumer impulse, refocusing attention on enjoying the season, being present with people you care about, and embracing love and generosity rather than shopping and material purchases.
Is it better to spend money on holiday gifts or focus on spending time with family and friends?
According to this perspective, focusing on time with family and friends is more meaningful than spending money on holiday gifts. The holiday season’s true spirit lies in love, connection, and helping others — not in how much is spent. Material purchases like gadgets can be enjoyable, but they should not overshadow the deeper values of togetherness and giving from the heart.
