I wish I was a person who collected physical addresses. But I’m bad like that. I have no problem texting people or sending greetings via email, but old school mail… what? Yet now I want to send out formal invitations, and not just emails. The husband to be has no issue because he knows everyone’s addresses for his side. So it’s my issue.
Speaking of planning a wedding, the chapel is booked for the ceremony. I don’t want the huge Church. Chapel is amazingly fine. I hadn’t intended to shop parishes. My parents, my grandma all go to one Catholic Church. When getting married, Dad and Grandma both talked to the same priest for me. We set up the appointment there, but as I went to Catholic school, I knew there was more than just the chapel. There are classes. So I thought, let’s do that as close to the house as possible. We went to the local Church which is EXTREMELY conservative. They said class every week for nine months. Eeek. Then we talked to the Father my parents and Grandma already spoke to. He said a couple times. So family is right. We’re going there. (And yes I’m confirmed. It happened in Irish Catholic school.)
The reception hall is on hold at the moment. This weekend we go up to try some food and leave the deposit. So once that is done, it’s back to invitations.
Why am I not discussing the dress at the moment? I’m waiting for my mom. She’s up with my sister who is about to give birth. Mom comes home in a week or two and we can discuss dress shopping then. I want mom with me.
In the meantime, it’s time to go write. I hope all is well!!!
Frequently Asked Questions
How do you collect guest addresses for wedding invitations when you don’t have them?
Collecting physical addresses for wedding invitations can be a challenge if you rely mostly on texting or email. A practical approach is to ask family members on each side to gather addresses from their contacts. In this case, the groom already had all addresses for his side, leaving the bride to focus on collecting her own guest list’s addresses before sending formal invitations.
What are the pre-marriage class requirements at a Catholic church before a wedding?
Pre-marriage class requirements vary significantly between Catholic parishes. Some extremely conservative churches require classes every week for nine months before the wedding. Other parishes may only require attending a couple of sessions. It’s worth consulting multiple priests or parishes, as requirements differ, and choosing the one that best fits your timeline and circumstances is entirely acceptable.
Should you get married in a Catholic chapel vs. a large Catholic church?
Choosing between a Catholic chapel and a larger church depends on personal preference, family ties, and logistics. A chapel offers a more intimate setting and can feel equally meaningful for the ceremony. If family already has a relationship with a specific priest at a particular parish, that connection — along with more flexible pre-marriage class requirements — may make the chapel or smaller church the better practical choice.
